What would you tell a friend or loved one who suspected that she might have an STI but was afraid to get tested?
I would tell her that she needs to get tested as soon as possible because some STI's can lead to infertility if left untreated. I would recommend that she see her gynecologist instead of her family practice doctor because gyn's specialize in female anatomy. If she is embarrassed to tell the appointment clerk she needs testing for STI's then she could tell them she is having issues that she is uncomfortable talking about and would rather tell the doctor. I would go with her to her appointment if that would make her feel more comfortable. Just having the testing done will relieve most of the stress she is feeling and when she gets the results I will be there to support her. I've never had to have STI testing except for the standard testing during pregnancy but I know it would be embarrassing to get tested but my health is more important than my pride.
